Suri: Shaar Habitachon: Tranquility: Believing Only in Ourselves

LESSON 6, TRANQUILITY:  TRUSTING IN OURSELVES

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LAST WEEK WE RAISED THE QUESTION, WHY WE SHOULD TRUST IN G-D?

WE ANSWERED THAT THERE ARE 10 BENEFITS TO TRUSTING IN G-D, 5 SPIRITUAL BENEFITS AND 5 MATERIAL BENEFITS

OF THE SPIRITUAL BENEFITS THERE ARE

  1. TRANQUILITY
  2. INDEPENDENCE
  3. PEACE OF MIND AND SERENITY
  4. FINANCIAL SATISFACTION
  5. FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY

OF THE MATERIAL BENEFITS THERE ARE

  1. STRESS FREE LIFE
  2. IMMUNITY FROM THE FATIGUE OF TRAVELING
  3. HARM-FREE EMPLOYMENT
  4. NO DISTRESS
  5. ALWAYS HAPPY

AS TO TRANQUILITY: THERE ARE THREE OPTIONS FOR TRUST

  1. TRUST IN G-D
  2. TRUST IN OTHERS
  • TRUST IN OURSELVES

 

  1. TWO WEEKS AGO, WE DISCUSSED THAT G-D IS OUR MASTER AND OUR SOLE RESPONSIBILITY IS TO SERVE HIM AND THE MIRACLES GREAT AND SMALL HE PERFORMS FOR US DAILY.
  2. LAST WEEK WE DISCUSSED THE OPTION OF PLACING OUR TRUST IN OTHERS.
  • THIS WEEK WE WILL DISCUSS PLACING OUR TRUST SOLELY IN OURSELVES. THIS IS THE LAST LEG OF OUR DISCUSSION ON THE FIRST BENEFIT OF BITACHON/TRUST, WHICH IS TRANQUILITY.

HOW DO WE BALANCE OUR NEED TO WORK WITH UNDERSTANDING THAT OUR EFFORTS ARE NOT THE SOURCE OF OUR WEALTH, THEY ARE MERELY THE OPPORTUNITY FOR G-D TO SUSTAIN US.

EACH ONE OF US WAS GIVEN STRENGHTS AND WEAKNESSES.  SOME ARE BORN PHYSICALLY WEAK AND INTELLECTUALLY STRONG, MAN HAS TO EVALUATE HIS NATURAL STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES AND DETERMINE WHAT JOB WOULD BE BEST FOR HIM, PERHAPS TEACHER OR SCIENTIST AND NOT A CONSTRUCTION WORKER.

BY WAY OF EXAMPLE, IF A MAN IS A FARMER AND WANTS TO GROW WHEAT, HE HAS TO PLANT THE SEED, WHETHER THERE IS SUFFICIENT WATER FOR THE SEED TO GROW, WHETHER THE SEED WAS A HEALTHY SEED TO GROW IS ALL UP TO G-D.

I HAVE A GARDEN, EACH YEAR I PLANT FOUR TOMATO PLANTS, TWO LETTUCE PLANTS AND TWO CUCUMBER PLANTS.  I WATER THEM ALMOST DAILY.  EACH YEAR, THE HARVEST DIFFERS,

IN SOME YEARS IT IS GREATER THAN OTHERS.  IN THE YEARS WHERE THE BOUNTY IS GREAT, I CAN SEARCH TO DETERMINE WHAT IT IS I DID THAT YEAR, THAT CAUSED THERE TO BE A LARGE NUMBER OF VEGGIES, DID I BUY IT FROM LOWES OR DESETTA, DID MY COMPOST THAT YEAR HAVE BETTER SCRAPS IN IT…THE ANSWER YEAR AFTER YEAR, IS I DID MY BEST, IMPROVED SOME OF MY FARMING PRACTICES, KNOWING ULTIMATELY IT IS ALL IN G-D’S HANDS.

WE SPEND SO MUCH TIME ON COULDA WOULDA SHOULDA, AND IT’S GREAT AS A MOTIVATOR TO DO BETTER FOR OTHERS AND OURSELVES.

ULTIMATELY, WE TRUST IT IS ALL IN G-D’S HANDS AND ALL FOR THE BEST.  SOMETIMES A PAINFUL BULLET TO BITE.

ON THE ONE HAND, WE HUMANS SEEK TO CONTROL, AS MANDATED BY G-D TO ADAM, ON THE OTHER HAND WE MAY BE COMFORTED BY KNOWING THAT ALL THAT HAPPENS, WAS AND IS IN G-D’S CONTROL AND PLAN.

WHY IS MAN GIVEN WISDOM STRENGTH AND WEALTH?

TO USE IT TO SUSTAIN HIMSELF SO HE CAN SERVE G-D.

WHEN IS WEALTH A BLESSING?

WHEN HE USES IT TO SERVE G-D, SUSTAIN HIMSELF AND HIS FAMILY, TO DO ACTS OF KINDNESS AND CHARITY.

SO WHY DOES G-D GIVE A SEEMING NON-BELIEVER WEALTH?

  1. IT WILL BE WITH HIM AS A DEPOSIT, SO THAT HE WILL GUARD IT FROM HARM, UNTIL THE TIME THAT IT WILL BE RETURNED TO THE ONE WHO IS DESERVING OF IT, AND FOR WHOM IT WAS MEANT, E.G. THE POOR OR AN HEIR.
  2. THE MONEY WILL BE THE CAUSE OF HIS MISFORTUNE, E.G., CRIMINAL ACTS, WHICH LEAD HIM TO JAIL OR TO DIE. NOT ONLY DOESN’T HE DERIVE BENEFITS FROM HIS WEALTH, IT IS THE SOURCE OF HIS DOWNFALL.
  3. IT IS THE SOURCE OF MAN’S CONCERN AND STRESS, AS TO WHETHER HE WILL LOSE IT, OR WHETHER IT WILL SUFFICE.

IN SUM:  MAN USES THE STRENGTHS G-D GAVE HIM TO SUSTAIN HIMSELF AND HIS FAMILY.  IF HE USES HIS WEALTH TO SERVE G-D, HE GETS TO KEEP IT.  IF HE MISUSES HIS MONEY, HE RETAINS HIS WEALTH TEMPORARILY.

 

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